From The Editor
1. What prompted you to write this book?
I myself have been coached for a long time. As my life began to change and, as I began to learn the principles of living a successful life (which I define as fulfilling, rewarding and happy on an intellectual, emotional and spiritual level) I felt the urge to share this unique and profound experience.
2. Who is your book aimed at and what can it offer to the readers?
This is an interesting question because I had a clear image of "my" reader. I thought they would be women aged 35 plus. However, I'm finding that men are attracted to this book as well. Perhaps it's a sense of recognition with "Jim" (the name I gave my ex). Whatever the reason, I have received comments that reflect a real understanding of what I was trying to put across. That, to me, is hugely encouraging because the appeal appears to be broader than I had anticipated.
3. What makes your book so important?
Most people believe that life just happens to them and that they are helpless to do anything about it. The reality is that we create our own experience. We have more power over our life and relationships than people realise. Those who don't, create events, experiences and relationships that don't fulfill them but don't know what to do about it. It is only when we start to take responsibility that everything changes, as it did with me and as is outlined in very personal and intimate terms in my book. You might call it a roadmap to a happier life. My intention is to inspire the reader start their own journey.
4. There are so many self-help books around. What makes you stand out as the writer of this book?
Most writers of self-help books present themselves as "experts" which is slightly distancing. Writing this book in the form of an autobiography has forced me to go deeply within myself. I have not spared or protected myself nor have I tried to impress the reader in any way. People who have read it comment that they recognise themselves in me, which then inspires them to review their self-perception and to look for ways to take responsibility in their own life.
"Dancing with The Mask is out now at The Open Book, King Street, Richmond and Langford Books, Church Street, Twickenham, priced £12.00.
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